Dating and getting dumped
Dating and getting dumped
But at the same time I felt like something was off. Work sucked, I had few friends because I spent most of my free time with her, and even though things had been rocky she was all I had.At the time I wasn't sure if my discomfort was a result of adjusting to long distance or jealousy so I just left it. Got a text later that night from her new boyfriend saying "don't bother visiting", along with a bunch of pictures of them fucking... Then one day I call her and say we need to talk to fix some things, primarily her sleeping all day when I visited.
She drove an hour and a half to see me and deliver the news — she was breaking up with me. I tried to be friends afterward, but it's awkward because the breakup is so fresh and I still have feelings for her." — Steven, 22 7.
I'm pretty sure she just said we were breaking up, and that she was really sorry, and then she left.
At that point, I had a very awkward moment as my waitress brought out cheese fries that I had ordered. I didn't really feel much at the time — not because I didn't care. There was a pit in my stomach the whole time, but I just kept smiling and nodding.
I met a girl online and we got to know each other for around 2 months. Long story short my grandmother passed away while we were getting to know each other, she knew where I was that day, and texted me while I was at the meal after my grandmother's funeral that she didn't want to continue talking to me.
"I broke up with my ex because I was a freshman in college and she was a senior in high school. She hated me for it, but to be honest, I loved her so much and my intentions were good. She was super clingy and always calling me when I was trying to sleep.
I couldn't wait for the next thing she would say to me, every time my phone went off I was excited it might be a text from her. During finals she asked if I would stop messaging her so much so she could study. I'm probably going to get some flack for not defining it or maybe she didn't see it as a relationship and your crazy because I always do.
Finally she said, "How about I just text you and let you know when I can talk again." Kind of messed up, but I could see how I was bothering her if she was really trying to study. She knew perfectly well because I had talked to her about it and yes I was dumb for not having defined it. Doesn't change the fact that it was a shitty thing to do."Breaking up with my ex was something I had been meaning to do for a few weeks but did not have the courage to go through it.I finally ended it over the phone when she called to yell at me again.Something seemed a bit off, but I couldn't tell what was going on.I get to the restaurant and see some of my things on the bench next to her and I smiled. To be honest, I don't really remember what she said or did.You’ll find that happiness comes easiest when you don’t keep asking why it’s gone.